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Monday, 03 October 2005

  • I’ve been in darkness for so long just waiting for the light,
    And now that you have come my way, my days don’t seem like nights.

    I’m glad I’m finally overcome my fear of the other side,
    Thank you for showing me the way, by taking me on this ride.

    I’ve never really felt this way about a guy before,
    You’ve truly touched me deep inside, you’ve opened, unlocked, the door.

    I know it’s nothing serious, but surely it’s a start,
    You’ve treated me so equally, I feel it in my heart.

    And even if this does not work, I’m glad I’ve had this chance,
    To see how great you truly are, even just for a glance.

    We never know what’ll come of this, it really just depends,
    I’m glad we’re taking the first step, we’re becoming better friends.

    With you I never have to guess just how you really feel,
    You talk to me about the facts and tell me what’s the deal.

    With you I feel so comfortable, like nothing can go wrong,
    I get this tingly feeling inside, you sing to me like a song.

    The fact that you are older, really did freak me out,
    But you treat me like I’m your age, now I’m rid of all my doubts.

    I’m trying to live in the moment, by forgetting about the past,
    And so far it’s been working, and it’s really been a blast.

    So hopefully from this day forth, I’ll know just what to do,
    If ever I come across a guy, another guy like you.

     --its been 3 years, yet u came along, wanted to bring back all these memories.. hmmm... pretty impressive.. let's see about everything you've said though.. take care, thank you for loving me till now.. --

Thursday, 28 July 2005

  • im hoping things will be fine soon.. w/ regards to work, family, financial status, and most especially, the inner me.. to all who has been supportive, thanks sa lahat.. i love u all..

Friday, 27 May 2005

  •  

    WORKING SMART

     

    An old man lived alone in Idaho. He wanted to spade his potato garden, but it was very hard work. His only son, who used to help him, was in prison. The old man wrote a letter to his son and described his predicament.

     

    Dear Son,
      I am feeling pretty bad because it looks like I won't be able to plant my
      potato garden this year. I'm just getting too old to be digging up garden
      plot. If you were here, all my troubles would be over. I know you would dig
      the plot for me.

    Love, Dad

     

     

    A few days later he received a letter from his son.

     

    Dear Dad,
      For heaven's sake, Dad, don't dig up that garden, that's where I buried the BODIES.

    Love, Son

     

     

    At 4am the next morning, F.B.I. agents and local police showed up and dug up the entire area without finding any bodies. They apologized to the old man and left. That same day the old man received another letter from his son.

     

    Dear Dad,

       Go ahead and plant the potatoes now. That's the best I could do under the circumstances.

    Love, Son


     

    *****

     

    The moral of the story: Work smart not hard. Use your brain, in the
    perceived impossible, sometime it can make the impossible possible.

     


    "Generosity is giving more than you can and Pride is taking less than you need. "

     

Wednesday, 11 May 2005

  • Simple when one or the other stops trying.

    No matter how different you are culturally, emotionally, physically or whatever the most
    important thing is this: relationships need two people to work. It's an ongoing effort. And no matter how compatible you may be, everyday, you have to actively work at maintaining a relationship.

    Problem is, people start getting lax in the middle of the relationship. At one point, some just stop trying. And of course, the other has no idea what has happened. "Does he still love me? Then why isn't he making an effort anymore?"

    Naturally, that other person tries even harder. He/she becomes to look even more desperate, because he/she wants to save the relationship. Most of the time, this drives the partner away even further. People are stupid they cannot appreciate what they already have. It's only when they lose it than they feel regret. But it's already too late.

    My mistake is that I tried to hard, pushed too hard for the relationship. Maybe it's because he's my first love, so I put up with all the crap. I should've given up earlier when I found out that he wasn't trying anymore. But I didn’t. I'm a person who does not give up easily, especially with regards to people I really cared about. And I tried harder and
    harder. He just couldn't handle it, but he had no courage to say anything about it.

    No one wants to be the bad guy. I believed I was the perfect girlfriend; never gave him any excuse to complain. Besides, it wasn't in his nature to. So we pushed on a dead-end relationship.

    Ultimately, I didn't feel it was healthy for both of us anymore. I was becoming someone I didn't want to be. I was unhappy most of the time, and my needs weren't being met. In his side, he found himself feeling guilty of not being able to love me for the great person I am. Everyone else can see the whole situation and disapproved. But what can they do? I was madly in love with this guy. And love makes people blind.

    But afterwards, I gradually got my confidence back. I slowly realized my value. I was a great person, a wonderful friend, had a good future in front of me. Why was I putting up with a dead-end relationship? I deserved better than that. And if he cannot realize it, then, he's not the right man for me.

    How screwed up is that?! But I was still a great girlfriend till the end. I gave him a choice. If he will make an effort, I have no qualms in continuing. But he couldn't.

    So bye-bye. I think I deserve more than that. =================================

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